Monday, April 25, 2011

'My boyfriend won't have sex with me'

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months and we get on really well. The only thing is he won't sleep with me. I knew he was a virgin when we got together but I thought by now he would trust me enough. However he is adamant that sexual intercourse (of any kind) is not what he wants. He is 25 and does a huge amount of sport and adrenaline-pumping activities. I think this is how he has dealt with his sexual frustration in the past and it seems he doesn't need anything else. Does this mean he will never want to have sex? Because if this is the case I don't think I will be able to stay in this relationship. What should I do?

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